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Oprah has started her new season and I peeked at her website tonight to see what she has on tap for the next few weeks on her television show. And, as with most Americans (and perhaps the world), the financial crisis seems to be appropriately on the mind of Oprah and her team of producers.
So, as I browsed through her list of call-outs trying to find people to be on the show, I really started thinking hard about my generation of stereotypical middleclass adults and what we have enjoyed over the last 40 years. It dawned on me that we sure have purchased a lot. Seems to me that we have made the world go round with stuff . . .just look inside my extra-deep, three-car garage that can’t shelter our automobiles without the help of an off-site storage unit. It’s really pretty sad. . .and, embarrassing.
It’s so clear in my mind that “consumerism” has made the world economy go round for decades. And, our expectations of what we should be able to afford (what we want) versus what we really could afford never became one for millions of Americans. And, in the process we have started to make ourselves extinct. Yes, the extinction of the American middle-class seems imminent if we don’t cut back.
Now, I don’t mean to be a “Debbie Downer” – because I usually try to be funny, upbeat and happy go lucky on the “oshouldknow” blog—but, geez people. . .we have got to start getting realistic. And, if you don’t do it for yourself—do it for the children in our world, many that have no clue what it is like to miss a meal or not be able to Wii themselves to sleep.
And, readers, please be sure to note that I am not pointing fingers anywhere (or at anyone) outside of my garage doors. I have certainly contributed to the problem. Thankfully, I resisted the VERY tempting notion to go and buy the “big house” over the last few years. I was hoping to join the “Jones’” many times, longing for 1,000 square feet per family member, granite floors and a master bath shower fit for five (all of my family members, plus the pooch!). But, we did take the big vacations, overfill our kids’ toy boxes (and, the garage, attic and under the bed), eat out too often and spoil ourselves with the platinum cable TV package. Yes, we sure did consume!
So, what now? I’m not really sure. I’m hoping Oprah (through her outlets) will help us to figure it out by providing us with expert advice, thoughts—some guidance through these times. That is what I’d like O to Know. . .for a while.
This blog is ultimately about telling stories—true stories about things that are important, things that inspire and things that make us happy, sad. . .moved. Authored by Stephanie Worrell—a wife, mother, author, business owner and believer that all things are possible—she has always sought out amazing people and their stories. All of her life (that she can remember), Stephanie has been attracted to people who work to make the world a better place. Stretching the mind and your current way of thinking about things is important to moving forward in life. Stephanie is asking the world to contribute their stories, product suggestions, book review, etc. to this blog. And, who knows. . .someone might just be reading that can take a story to the masses. You never know. O, really—it could happen!
Olive
October 4th, 2008 at 10:48 am
This is one of your best posts. It’s true that people just keep buying and buying. We bought one of those big houses four years ago and now we are sorry. It is not only unneccessary, but hard to keep clean and our kids are always spread out all over the house vs. interacting tightly as a family. Thanks so much for your continued insight on the world. You make me laugh, even with such a serious topic. Blog on Big O!
Jennifer Miller
October 4th, 2008 at 10:55 am
I just stumbled upon you looking for financial advice. LOVE your site. Somebody at Harpo should be paying attention. Hire this woman!
Patti
October 4th, 2008 at 2:09 pm
Steph, it appears we’ve been living parallel lives! I too look around and see stuff and more stuff that needs dusted, maintained, repaired or put away somewhere, but there’s no place to put it because other stuff is already there. This is our year to simplify! Great post.
Jess
October 5th, 2008 at 10:43 am
I hear you Patti on the need to simplify! I have that feeling when I look around at all that I have accrued, thinking that a simple puff of smoke that makes it all disappear wouldn’t be a bad thing. I’m trying to get back to the simple life these next few months with big time cut backs on consumption, cooking from home, and homemade holiday gifts for everyone (Family cookbooks headed their way!) Great post Steph
Boise Programmer
October 6th, 2008 at 2:17 pm
I would even take this one step further. I’ve thought for years that the high rate of divorce is directly driving the economy, in many ways. Instead of taking the time to make a phone call or send an email, my ex and her mom think the solution to forgotten or misplaced items is to keep buying more. I look in the closet and see 5 skateboard helmets, I look in the laundry room and see dozens of pairs of socks and underwear that are worn one day a week.
Add to this the fuel needed to shuttle kids back and forth to school on split workweek visitations, daycare spending, eating out more often from being rushed, etc. Top it off with a housing boom unlike anything we’ve seen, fueled not by nuclear households but by overfinanced single parents wanting to have the bigger home than their ex partner.
It’s the maroschino cherry on top of a fiat currency system that is bound to fail sooner or later.