A few weeks ago, readers might recall the speech that was O (Obama not Oprah!) so controversial . . .the big Presidential speech to school kids.  Parents got all worked up about everything from socialism, liberalism, brainwashing—yet once people actually read the speech (that was posted on online prior), it turns out it was really about working hard, being responsible, setting goals, watching less TV and yes. . .hand washing versus brainwashing (i.e. swine flu).

I was actually impressed with the overall tone and content because I worry daily that I’m not teaching my kids how to roll up their sleeves and understand that it takes a little sweat on their brow to achieve almost everything.  My mom and dad pretty much used my sisters and I for slave labor (OK, that’s maybe an exaggeration), making sure on a daily basis we contributed in some way to the family, on a sports team, in the classroom and generally have the ability to challenge ourselves to make the right effort to get a top-notch outcome.

Now, don’t get me wrong.  There have and can be some fairly negative consequences to be too bull doggy as a parent—all of which I’m currently working to overcome.  You know. . .the typical overachieving, competitive, work alcoholic 40-something..  But, these days—I’m not complaining.  Even though my drive may kill me if I don’t continue to keep everything in moderation, I also know it has saved me over a lifetime.  I’ve learned to unconditionally believe that anything is possible.  Yes, anything.

And, that is why my kids need to learn the value of hard work.  Once you’ve done it, make it a practice – there is nothing you can’t overcome or do.  If you suck at basketball in the 7th grade (me, me – pick me!). . .you can be a star by high school.  Or, maybe even become Michael Jordan later in life.    I’ve seen over and over again that a lot of hustle and a lot of practice will eventually pass over talent.  How many of you know someone with blissful talent who just gets buy (or in some cases), sits on their lazy bottom and realize almost nothing.

I don’t want that to be my kid.  I don’t want that to be the generation who raises me when I’m 70.   As I’ve said before, this economy is causing people to reinvent and re-evaluate themselves.  Nothing is a given anymore.  Even if you don’t have kids, take a junior high or high school kid under your wing.  They have been watching easy, simple, convenient all of their lives.  Things aren’t like that anymore.  Show them how to work hard and the eventual rewards they will realize.

And. if you are one of the talented ones who has rested on your “bottom” laurels, get up!  You’ve rested long enough, although I sure have fun running right past you.

I’m off (now) to teach my kids a little bit about how to clean the bathroom.  When they complain, I’ll tell them how lucky it is that they can hop in the shower and wash off that sweat.   Whaah, Whaah!